I’ve spent my quarantine working my way through a major health scare and getting answers to why my body does not want to work anymore. As I try to process and acclimate to this new entity, I keep being reminded of the warriors who have fought bigger battles. Do you ever feel like you’re not doing anything, or your struggles may not level up to others’ wars?
My mind wanders quite often to all my Grandpa Jack experienced in his life. Grandpa Jack died years before I was born. He was born & raised in North Carolina, lived through the Depression, served in WWII, worked as a postman, grocer, and many other jobs. He met and married my Mimi shortly after the war & had 3 amazing kids. Grandpa Jack coached my uncle’s peewee football team and was bewildered when all his youngest, my mama, wanted were a pair of red shorts instead of a new dress. He lived a full life; I do not know if it was because of all he faced or in spite of it. And where did all that strength come from?
He was severely burned as a child trying to heat up the wood stove faster.
Lived with an angry father until he could enlist in the Marines.
Served in the Pacific Theater – wounded on both Iwo Jima and Guadalcanal
Haunted by memories of the horrors & brutality of the war his entire life; later diagnosed with battle fatigue.
Injured on the job as a postman one day when he was walking his route.
Fought day in and day out every war-torn memory, painful injury, and major heart complications to give my mama and her siblings a good life.
Ultimately those injuries would take his life.
I wonder if he knew all he did, all he survived did give his family so many blessings. I often get stuck on whether he knew all he built for himself.
He fell in love.
Loved his children & was a strong presence in their lives.
Found & lived true forgiveness.
Tried to heal & change patterns in his life in a time when few others were doing so.
Did he feel in his bones how much he was loved, someone to be proud of, someone whose character I try to emulate?
I get scared, feel the toll of my gastroparesis, or find myself acting out of old scars, only to have his face pop up in my head. This picture of him standing next to his crop of corn grinning from ear to ear.
I know that though he never knew me, but he loves me as he loved all his grandchildren.
I wonder if he would buy me those red shorts just like he did my mama.
I know he would be picking me up, placing me back into the ring every time I feel defeated.
He was a warrior. He’s one of my angel warriors.
And I just wonder if he knew how important he was.
I find myself hoping that all those warriors that came before me, who walk alongside me, know it’s their example I’m following.
If I’m strong, it’s because they were.
I don’t give up because I have no idea what that looks like.
I take one step at a time in the boot prints he left for me.
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